June 23, 2014

A chance to make my sister's day

Anyone remember this?



If you’ve been around here for a while, you might remember that 2012 was the summer that we lived in a cute little cabin with a tree growing up through the middle of its roof. Hubby was one of the staff for Colorado Leadership Training, a program that combines an amazing summer job with mentoring, deep relationships, and opportunities for outreach.

There were some scary wildfires.
We even had some crazy car trouble that made for a memorable first anniversary.
The sunsets were jaw-droppingly gorgeous against the mountains each night.
And we met more amazing people in one summer than I thought possible.

THIS summer, it’s my little sister’s turn!

The day after her highschool graduation this May, Kat headed north for a summer of working full time for the YMCA as a family coordinator. Which basically means she has the coolest job ever: she leads nighttime hikes, plays games with kids, and gives nature tours.

Her limited time off is filled with leadership training, new friends, bouldering, and running trails in the early mornings.

When her pictures pop up on my news feed, I can almost smell the mountains.

Those highschool dreads had become part of her in my mind, so her new close-cropped hair takes me by surprise. But it's adorable. She is a gamine, blue-eyed beauty with a boyish halo of blond.

One thing I remember from our summer at LT is how special real mail became.

Cell phone reception at the 'Y is almost non-existent, and Wi-Fi hotspots are small and crowded. When you miss your family and friends at home, there is nothing quite like finding a fat letter at the tiny post office, your name written in loopy, familiar cursive.

If you know my lil' sis and want to make her day, write her a note! (If you don't know her, consider writing a note to someone else!)

Here is her summer address:

[Staffer's Name] - EPC Staff
PO Box 20700
Estes Park, CO 80511


June 20, 2014

Three years ago this day

Last night you nuzzled close to my face in bed and we looked at each other in the dark.

"Three years!" you whispered. "That's crazy!"

And it is. But if this is crazy, well Sweetheart, I've decided I like crazy.

On that day three years ago, I was nervous and excited and my cheeks hurt from smiling but I just couldn't stop the grin that bubbled up and took over my face. I was declaring to the whole world that you were the man I wanted to follow as you follow Jesus. I was becoming yours, promising my heart and all my years until I die.

We only learn the magnitude of a promise when we live it.

I don't need the pictures to remember how your face trembled with emotion when I rounded that corner at the end of the aisle. The way our hands gripped each other and your eyes glowed as Ray said "husband and wife".


It was the first of all the moments following, but we've had even better ones since then.

I remember how we danced our feet sore and you did that crazy backflip that freaked out the mother you'd just waltzed. I remember how I blushed when you reached up for the garter.

Now you backflip for the neighborhood kids.

Three years ago this day I could not have known how I would love you now.
Or how your voice inflections would become mine.
How your allergies would create a new level of health for us both.
How I could love a second family so intensely.
How the curve of your arm and side could become home to me.

I love you, Darling. Like crazy.

*I started this post on Wednesday, our real anniversary, but had such a fun date that night that there was no chance to post until now. :)

June 13, 2014

Italy::Just the Highlights

It's a fact of life--life can sometimes get crazy busy! We completely understand, trust me.

So if you haven't had the chance to catch up on blogs or facebook in a while, the hubby and I thought we'd do a summary post to give our friends and family the highlights of our recent short term mission trip to Italy.

But since I've written a lot about Italy this year, I thought it'd be really fun to let you hear from the team leader himself!  So here it is--hubby's very first guest post on my blog. :)

Jordan--

"God did more than we could ask or imagine this year in Italy! (Ephesians 3:20) Nine of us left to go and reach college students in Milan, Italy on May 11th.  We served the local students through English clubs to help them practice their English skills. We had over fifty students attending almost every day! As the team leader, I (Jordan) can tell you that a lot of hard work goes into making these two short weeks worthwhile for the Italians, but it's a lot of fun.
  

As a team, we prayerfully made a goal before we left to share our testimonies and/or the gospel thirty times.  I lost count near the end of the trip after we shared over fifty times!  Also, two of the students put their faith in Christ!  For a two-week trip like this, being able to share as much as we did was not normal. We know that through your prayers and support, God did more than we asked!
It was awesome to see how our team was filled with boldness to share the gospel as well as their personal stories.  For some it was a challenge, but with God's help they overcame their fears. As a result, many people heard for the first time about the forgiveness and grace of Jesus."

Italy by the numbers:

31 new Facebook friends for Cherise alone
252 espressos consumed by the team (a conservative estimate)
39 total hours of travel
282 people supported this trip!
50+ gospel presentations
2 new followers of Jesus Christ


Of course, it's not about tally marks. We humbly realize that God evaluates the success of a trip by a far different standard, so we don't share these numbers with that heart.

It's to say "look how BIG God is!"

We are brimming thankful.
Thankful for the chance to be part of God's age-old plan of love for Italy and the world.
Thankful for the chance to tell our stories of God transforming us and rescuing us.
Thankful for the dozens of answered prayers for safety, health, unity, and relationships with Italian students.

We are also crazy thankful for YOU, our wonderful friends and family members! That fancy dinner out, that new thing-for-the-wall/car/yard that you decided to sacrifice so that you could help us return to Italy--thank you. We couldn't have gone without you on our team.

Those minutes in the car when you thought of us and prayed for God to move--thank you. He did.


If you missed any of the awesome stories from the trip, here are all the links so you can catch up.

On our way to Italy again God was already answering prayers, and we weren't even in Italy yet!
Ciao-dy, Milan! It's been a while A picture-full post to let our families know we'd arrived safe and sound.
Photons, and a safe place for my flurried soul "Moo-care". 'Nuf said.
An Overdue Update! Lots of fun stuff in this one. :)
Living Forgiven in Front of Them One of the most memorable nights of the entire trip.
Five Years with My Love Our romantic date on the town in Milano.
A last-minute train ride to Turin! It wasn't on the original trip agenda, but it was awesome.
Clubbin'. English Clubs, that is.  In which Cherise finally explains what on earth we do at those English Clubs.

June 3, 2014

Clubbin'. English Clubs, that is.

So I just realized that there is a gaping hole in the Italy trip posts.

In the past three years, I've written plenty about scavenger hunts, awesome conversations, coffee, gelato and the amazing things God taught me. However, I've never really explained the activity that attracts the students in the first place: English Clubs!

So here ya go--everything you ever wanted to know about the most happenin' club in Milan.

First of all, it's a club, not classroom instruction. We aren't licensed teachers, we're college students from another campus who are excited to help our friends practice English in a fun, relational setting.


Every day has a theme. We use idea books that are divided into themes like "family", "the outdoors", and "culture". Once we've picked a theme, we choose activities and games for that day that relate to the chosen topic. The American slang associated with each theme is especially fun. For example, when we talked about family, we taught them the meanings and uses of...
"mama's boy"
"brotha' from anotha' motha'"
"chip off the old block"
"spitting image"
"daddy's girl"
"rugrat"
"family feud"

Food day is a favorite! Each year we fill up one entire suitcase with American snack food for our new friends to try. Can you imagine living your whole life without beef jerky? They also don't have Sour Patch candy, Cheese-Whiz, or--brace yourselves--

PEANUT BUTTER.

 I KNOW.

We REALLY like Mafia. The card game, not the organized crime ring. It's a bit ironic, sitting in Italy, playing a game called "Mafia", but it's perfect for helping the whole group use their English to accuse their neighbors and defend their own alibi. :)

It's a cultural exchange. The culture of Italy and the culture of Aggieland may be very different, but both are beautiful, deeply traditional, and really fun to share and explain! This year, for example, we decided to teach our Italian friends how to line dance to "Copperhead Road", and they in turn taught us a line dance in Italian. (I really wish I could post the video clip! But I can't get it to work... :(  )

Movies help the discussions go deep. Although we reserve spiritual conversations for the times when we are off campus, meaningful discussions often begin in the classroom after watching a movie clip. All levels will gather in one room to watch part of a movie in English (with English subtitles). Afterward, in smaller groups, we work through prepared questions meant to stimulate thought and conversation.
Often, the answers that students give to these discussion questions reveal their attitudes toward their family, their dreams, and may even give clues about their current relationship with God.


Even though we're back in TX, these English Clubs are still going on! One of the girls on our team remained behind in Milan to continue ministry with the students and do a bi-weekly English Club at a local café. Please keep her in your prayers!